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Im not interested in dating right now

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It happens to just about everyone. You either see it coming, or it catches you completely off-guard. Someone you know asks you out, but you could not be any less interested. In fact, you are looking for a relationship.

I'm legitimately too busy for...

I get why you did it. But using that line is pretty terrible. Maybe even the worst thing you could have done except maybe laughing. That maybe, in the far off future, you will be ready for a relationship. And wait he will. What a waste of time, right? For you and him. Or even worse, when, in three weeks, six months or five years you find someone you actually want to be your boyfriend, your reject will realized that you lied. That you kind of led him on. Not everything works out.

What you are obligated to do, however, is respect him as a human being. That means telling him the truth — to the best of your ability. It might be a little unnecessary to list the reasons why you two are never, ever going to get together. Think of it from their perspective: You can almost feel his indifference across the table.

So be nice to people. A new Im not interested in dating right now Catalog series exploring our Im not interested in dating right now to each other, our food, and where it comes from.

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Get our newsletter every Friday! It just happens that I'm not dating, and I'm not especially going out of my way to change that. Only now, when I sit down to count it out, so I. See, I'm not interested in dating at all right now. Not at all. I feel that most guys ( not all guys!) my age are still very immature and impulsive.

You being not interested in dating is something that most people won't get.

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or go away for the weekend, not having someone to answer to is one of the most.

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