Of course she did. The whites, the Jews, the Chinese — nobody will ever accept them. She was talking about our future children. At the time of writing this, our cat is perfectly happy being the child of a mixed race household. Her vet has no problem pronouncing her Chinese-Jewish hyphenate name, and the other cats only tease her because of that one time she fell into the toilet.
I will say that while living on the mainland US, people were rather predictable with their ignorant comments.
More than the norm…snore. I met my first Jewish person in graduate school. As Japan is a very polite and considerate culture, my husband and I mostly went about our daily life with relatively few negative reactions — save for the occasional stares from older people or children on the subway.
But when people did cast judgement, there was no mistaking it, no lack of subtlety. It was the assumptions that got us. I once got mistaken for an escort. Just the other day, I was waiting for my husband while he got his hair cut. I was the only person sitting in the waiting area at the time. Hong Kong women, ABC women, they all want to hook up with white guys. I just got up and took my ABC ass to a nearby coffee shop to read instead. But was the situation something worth losing my cool over?
In the grand scheme of interracial marriage judgements, this was amateur hour. But what it did make me think about was the fact that no matter where I live, no matter where I go, there are always people that notice my marriage.
But I am hopeful.
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